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I learned that the phrase “How are you doing?” caused instantaneous tears no matter how good my day was going, but I also discovered the meaning of true friendship, and pride.

I have learned that my three year old son believes that his daddy lives “in the computer”! Gurabo, Puerto Rico

I’ve learned that the lines of communication can stay strong and even become stronger while he’s away. Fort Mitchell, KY

I have learned that letting your leg hair grow is not very pleasant, buying all the waxing items was a waste of money, and worst of all is letting another military spouse try to wax your legs for the homecoming is a very bad idea. Indiana

I have learned that while a deployment might seem like good timing to make changes; many times it’s the hardest time to really change. Indiana

I have learned that civilian friends do not always relate to the situations we face while there are empty boots left in our homes. Military spouses will become your best-friends and help shop for new shoes to wear to the welcome home to put next to those boots!   Indiana

I have learned that… One problem after another problem, what can go wrong will go wrong right when they first leave! Which is good since it helps the rest of the time seem unproblematic.   Indiana

I have learned that… being a reserve wife, the other wives are not living right next door like active duty… We can be miles and miles apart yet still IM like we are right there with one another for support and friendship.  Indiana

I learned that there is a switch in my brain labeled “Auto-Pilot”. I use it often. North Dakota